Protocol of the 7 “P”s of self-defense

When is it appropriate to resort to self-defense? It is necessary to answer this question, to fully understand when it is appropriate to act or not. Since we need to make this response popular, even among children, we have put in place a simple and not absolute protocol. (In the case of small children I suggest reducing it to 3 “Ps”, such as: talk, leave and protection).

Here is a framework that can motivate you to follow the steps to learn self-defense.

Prevention

Prevention is absolutely the best form of personal defense that exists, because it allows us to avoid conflicting or potentially risky situations for us and our loved ones. In most cases, simple actions like locking doors, asking for a ride, and choosing the neighborhood you live in minimize the risk of attacks.

Projection

The projection is the image of ourselves that we reflect in the eyes of our attacker. Let us never forget that we are mammals and that the predator will always give priority to easy prey. Therefore, through the practice of martial arts, it is common to acquire self-confidence, to the point of giving ourselves the certainty that, if necessary, we will be able to defend ourselves. For example, it is not uncommon for attackers to attack children or the elderly. Likewise, when we think about bullies, they will tend to target the most vulnerable.

Planning

Planning allows us to stay one step ahead and have a defense scenario in mind should an attack occur. This way we are not caught by surprise and we already have a well-studied protocol. For example, if we need to get back to the car alone, having the phone on call mode or pretending to argue is an effective option. In the case of bullying, by definition, the manifestations are recurrent. Then we can plan actions and words that will prepare us for the next confrontation.

So far, our first 3 “Ps” are down the line, before there is an altercation. The next ones will be upstream.

Speak

Speech is the recommended mode of communication to describe what we want (e.g. taking hostages) or to express anger. However, if words are lacking to express escalating anger, violent actions often follow. Fortunately, a knowledgeable person can find the words needed to defuse a situation and calm things down. For example:

– “What are you looking at, what is your problem…?” »

– “Well, I’m sorry, my mother died today and she had the same eye color as you…”

Start

When words lead nowhere or the situation doesn’t offer us the opportunity to dialogue, it’s time to leave. This will prevent you from acting recklessly, which could cause physical harm to yourself and others. Never hesitate to walk away and swallow your pride if you feel you might regret one of your actions.

Protection

We have reached the point where your life is currently in danger. It is time to act using the force necessary to defend ourselves. It is at this stage that we use the self-defense means at our disposal to save his physical integrity.

Legal procedures

It is possible to win the battle, but lose the cause. So, on the one hand, we must target the attacker’s intention, and as a last resort, use force. After making sure the attacker is out of danger, you must ensure his safety and seek help, in this case 9-1-1. You should always report the situation to the police, to protect yourself, in case there are more complex legal procedures, such as a trial. I strongly advise you to stick to this sentence:

– “I used the necessary force given the context.”

In conclusion, although certain attacks do not allow us to apply the 7 “Ps” to the letter, this model will guide you in the steps to follow if you need to defend yourself more seriously.